...is born from understanding
The Buddha
In order to find True Love within ourselves and for our selves we all need understanding.
Every being wishes to be understood and wants to understand others and the world. In order to understand others we actually need to understand ourselves first. And only beings who already understand themselves are able to understand others. If we do not understand ourselves we are most likely to be ruled by the opinions of others who do not understand themselves and us at all.
When we understand ourselves we radiate the frequency of understanding out to the universe and attract situations and people who understand us and support us in a deeper understanding process.
But what does understanding actually mean?
As the word includes: It is the knowing about (what) who we are, why we are here and how we are going to serve in this world in that we stand.
Understanding is the comprehansion of the fact
that we are all STANDING UNDER
the universal laws, the guidance and the support of heaven
and that we have tasks to accomplish
in alignment to the degree of our understanding
and that we have tasks to accomplish
in alignment to the degree of our understanding
Understanding ourselves is the most important part of the self realisation process.
In order to understand who we are we need to have a look at ourselves. We need to look deep within and we need to open ourselves to see things we like and we dislike. As our human mind is conditoned to judge and opperates in the modus of yin and yang...
Understading the dark parts of ourselves has nothing to do with judgement
and everything with acceptance.
Acceptance is one of the most important ingredients in the self understanding and self realisation process.
To accept means to receive wisdom and to embrace it fully.
It means that we examine the situations, the circumstances where the darkness was created and acknowledge that we have done mistakes. We not only find out what we have done but also out why we have done them and how we can transform so they do not influence us.
In the moment of understanding we are also given the solution for transformation.
When we really understand an issue we automatically know how to do better.
The solution of a problem is instantly offered to us in the moment of true understanding.
In the self-examination process we would ask oursleves three incredibly important questions:
1. What have I done or what happened to me?
2. Why have I done it or why did it happen to me?
3. How can I transform?
When we understand why we have done certain things or what caused us to react in a special way, we will feel understanding for ourselves and also for everyone involved.
From the expereince we made, we can now take what we have learned and apply the wisdom to other situations and we also can heal the pain and darkness that was caused.
I will share a practical example with all of you.
In my whole life I have experienced very huge discomfort and suffering when I would become hungry and not be able to eat instantly because I am for instance at work, or have no food available at that moment. It would become so stressful to me, to feel hungry that eventually I would start to cry.
I did always know in my head that a person can survive without food for a couple of days and that my fear that I felt inside, was the fear of dying and even by knowing that I would of course not die at this moment I could not stop, manage or release the fear and the discomfort of starving symptoms in my body. Only when I would finally get something to eat all of this would stop immediatly.
After realizing the law of karma and after my spiritual channels have opened so much that I was able to see my life and past life situations very clearly, I was able to find out where this strong reaction came from. As often, more than one of my past lifes has contributed to me feeling hungry in this way. There where lives where I have starved to hunger due to certain circumstances by myself and lives where I and my ancestors have done huge mistakes that caused others to starve to dead.There was a lot huge karma created on my journey related to food.
I begun to understand all of this and also did many practices to heal the imprints of the experiences on my soul, heart, mind and body.
But I did still often feel the strong impact of little hunger on me.
And I finally found out that one of the most important influantial experiences was actually from this life.
In a meditation healing session I have seen myself as a very little baby, crying and being extremely hungry. My father was not there and my mother was around in the house but not reacting to me.
When I saw this images I felt a lot of pain and desperation and I was wondering why my mother did not come over and to feed me and to take care of me. And then heaven opened up and showed me that my mother has suffered from a very severe post natal depression after my birth and was feeling so down at that time that she could not take care of me.
Seeing this have given me a very deep understanding of my whole life issue and at the same time allowed me to feel very deep understanding for my mom, feel compassion and a very deep level of love for her.
Real understanding always leads to more love for ourselves and for others.
When we truly understand our mistakes or the mistakes of others, we do not blame, judge, criticize but instead we instantly enter the space of unconditional forgiveness.
When we blame and criticize and judge, we are not understanding and we are actually experiencing and causing sepperation while
in the moment of deep understanding we experience Oneness.
Understanding causes our soul, heart, mind and body to Join as One.
Understanding is the experience of our soul, heart, mind and body being also United with the Source.
Understanding is Feeling Understood by the Source.
As my mother passed away early, I was never able to speak to her about this but when I visited my aunt in Poland who is my God Mother a few years ago, she actually totally confirmed that and shared with me that she often would come over to look after me cause she heard my crying and that she prepared me a bottle with milk to feed me when she realized I was not fed and screeming because of that.
This actually revealed to me why I always felt such a deep love and connection to my aunt even I have not seen her for the most part of my life.
Understanding our pain or a painful aspect of our life by applying the technique of examination of what, why and how is really possible.
Even we might not have open spiritual channels or believe in past lives.
There are many ways to connect with the own soul and receive answers from our own soul for our own issues.
Now I would like to invite you to go to my section of Soul Light Practices and try the steps I have prepared for you for your self understanding process.
Wishing you the greatest joy and happiness in the process of understanding yourself, the others and the world.
Thank you for reading my sharing.
With my deepest Love and Gratitude
Magdalena
